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An Irish Wedding So when my husband and I decided to get married (yes, that is how it happened, no bending down on one knee, no ring in my champagne glass at a nice restaurant…) in Ireland, I started researching the various customs and traditions, legalities and particulars of getting married in Ireland. The first thing necessity was to pick out a church over there and contact the parish priest at least three months in advance. It seems this is a law in Ireland now, I guess to stop fast, rushed marriages that will end up in divorce or separation in just a few short months. And, being Catholic, we then began pre-marriage counseling to clarify the fact that my future husband and I did indeed want to take this huge step in our lives. We had to dig out our baptismal, first communion, and confirmation records and have our local parish priest send all these documents to the priest in Ireland to do what ever legal things he needed to do. Our next step in planning our Irish wedding was to reserve and purchase our plane tickets, buy our wedding clothing (my dress and his tux/suit) and get our wedding rings. These were pretty simple & straightforward things to handle, but I would like to say a word about our wedding bands. We decided to do something really special and buy Celtic wedding bands so that everyone who meets us would know our Celtic heritage. They made our day really special, and people frequently comment on them. They remind us often about our Irish wedding and are a very special touch that I would recommend to all. So that handled on this side of the ocean, you must be sure the following things are reserved on the other side:
We had been at the pub most of the afternoon meeting with old friends who of course had to buy us pint after pint to toast our future together. So, before we knew it, it was 9 pm and we had to go down to the parish rectory to rehearse. Both of us were slightly nervous because of the fact that we were fairly smashed, but the first words out of The Father's mouth were "Welcome home Michael, will ye share a whiskey with me?" Needless to say, the ice was broken and we proceeded on merrily. And after that we headed back to the pub, me for my "Hen Party" and my future husband for his. We had a long, fun night and in the wee hours, stumbled home. The next morning, of course I awoke "bright eyed and bushy tailed" and ready for a beautiful day. The photographer arrived about an hour before the mass and we commenced to take picture after picture after picture. My father and I rode to the church in a '47 Rolls-Bentley, our quaint chaffeur-driven wedding car. The priest was shocked and I believe a little peeved that we arrived when we did. It seems that the bride is always supposed to be late! We proceeded on with the ceremony and it went much as an American ceremony would, with just a few unique parts. When we exchanged vows and rings, my husband took my left hand, touched my thumb with the ring and said, "In the name of the Father". Then he touched my index finger next and said, "In the name of the Son." Then he touched my middle finger and said, "And the Holy Spirit" and at "Amen" he placed the ring on my ring finger. I did the same procedure to him. Then the priest handed my husband an ancient polished coin. He then handed it to me and said these words, "I give you this gold and silver, tokens of all I possess." It was a beautiful touch that I had never before heard. After the ceremony, we stepped outside the church for more pictures and merriment. Our guests threw rice with sweet abandon, and we really whooped it up! Then my husband and I climbed in the wedding car and proceeded to the reception, a nice twenty-mile drive away through the gorgeous countryside of Westmeath. As we passed through each town people waved and honked at us to help celebrate our happy day. At the reception of course we had MORE pictures and then a really nice meal. Then the real fun began with our entertainment, a one-man band who played lots of traditional Irish music. I think my favorite part was when each member of my family got up, one at a time, gave us a toast and then either sang a special song or recited a special poem. It was the perfect ending to a perfect day! My Irish wedding was so enjoyable and special. I went back to my Irish roots and celebrated my heritage. If you have the chance, do it! You will truly cherish it "all the days of your lives…"
Until next time.
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Suzanne Barrett's
